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With millions of people world-wide using the Internet, a whole new community has been created. Before immersing yourself in this new culture, it's important to know the ground rules for courteous behavior. Out on the web, the rules of communication are referred to as 'netiquette'. The free, unregulated Internet will only remain so as long as 'netizens' like yourself continue to be responsible!


Email Basics and Netiquette

What IS Spam?

More Netiquette Resources




Email Basics and Netiquette
by A.L Haines

 

The new way we communicate, electronically, still has a few rules that keep our Manners in check. It's critical to have good email etiquette to promote online communication. Personal styles may differ, but there are general rules that apply in most situations.

 

Business Communication
Generally, business email should mirror your business correspondence in style, correctness and formality. Use a salutation or greeting, with the recipient's title (Mr., Ms., Dr.), as you would in a formal business letter. Use the person's first name if you would normally write to that person on a first name basis. Otherwise, use the person's last name.

 

Keep it simple!!

Messages should be concise and to the point. The goal is to be brief, and effective communication that doesn't waste the recipient's time is important to THEM. (People receive hundreds of email messages every day! ....and they get grumpy too).

 

Too Much Punctuation…
Don't get caught up in punctuation, especially excessive punctuation. You'll see lots of email messages where people put a 1/2 dozen exclamation points at the end of a sentence for added visual emphasis. Why????? If something is important it should be in your text, not in your punctuation.

 

Wrap It

Keep the number of characters per line below 80, with 60 characters being a good all around line size. Some email programs don't handle longer text well and don't have word wrap. Some recent email packages have a built-in feature that automatically word-wraps at a specified character limit so the problem may be essentially solved, but if your software does not support this feature, you'll need to remember to use the Enter key.

 

Formatting
Formatting your text is not the goal - plain text is it where it's at. Period. Trying to include fancy fonts only creates headaches for you and problems will arise. Count on it. There are lots of email clients that can't handle messages in these new formats. The message will be received as utter gibberish and may even crash the recipients email client. Think how impressed would you be......

Your goal is communication, not style. But, if you know your recipient's email client has HTML capabilities, you can be as fancy as you want (especially with internet marketing materials). If you're trying to grow your business, it's best to be up there on the top with the latest technology.

 

So,
1. Send text email to people who receive text,
2. AOL to people with AOL.
3. HTML to people who can receive HTML.

 

Abbreviations
Abbreviation usage is quite rampant with email. In our quest to save keystrokes, we've all moreoften than not, traded clarity for confusion. Never even knew it was happening did you?

 

We recommend using only abbreviations that are already common to the English language. Anything more than that is only confusing your email recipient. Since there's no visual or auditory cues with email, users have come up with something called "smilies" or "emoticons." They are simple strings of characters that are interspersed in the email text to convey the writer's emotions & feelings on the subject.

 

The most common example is :-).
(Turn your head to the left and you should see a happy face)
A wink is ;-). Neutral or indifferent is :-|.


There are others, but you get the idea. They are typically found at the end of sentences and will usually refer back to the prior statement. These should be used sparingly and are NOT appropriate for formal business correspondence.

 

Signatures
In a letter or other paper document, it's typical to close with a name, title, organization and so leave room for a signature. Since we don't yet sign emails with an actual signature (but will soon, with the official approval of digital signature legal standing), senders often include name, title and organization but leave no signature space. It's also polite to include your contact info beneath the name of the organization. Signature files can also be an effective means to get a quick offer in to your correspondence. One rule you should follow is keeping it to 3-4 lines of text and an address (url/email)

 

Keep Threads Connected
Once you send that first email, you will probably get a response. If you want to reply to that response, the inappropriate thing to do is to start a new email message. This breaks the link (called a "thread") between the original message and your soon-to-be-created response. Without the link, it can be difficult for the users on each end to follow the sequence of messages, especially after several exchanges.

 

This becomes an even larger problem when your dealing with newsgroups where several people may be replying to messages and trying to follow the thread of exchanged information. The correct thing to do is to reply, which is essentially the

same thing as creating a new message but maintains the thread content.

 

Quotes
Nothing is more wasteful than to reply to an email by including a complete copy of the original with the words "I agree" or "Ditto" at the bottom. What's the point? The correct way of replying is to use quoting. The key with quoting is to include enough material in the quote so that it will be relevant to the recipient and to leave out the other (50? 100?) lines that aren't even relevant to your response.

 

(Lack of) Privacy
Remember: Although efforts might be made by some organizations to respect email privacy, generally it is not a private medium. Email can be monitored and read in a variety of contexts, and you may also accidentally send or receive an email meant for someone else. In addition, hackers can access your email if they try hard enough. No security measures are completely effective, so it's best to bear in mind the potentially public nature of the correspondence you create on email. Ask around at the office and you will find everyone has a story about an embarrassing correspondence made public.

 

Flames
To be "flamed" means that you've sent an email to a person that has caused him or her to respond with angry words. It's basically a verbal attack in electronic form. In the email arena, you can never predict what effect your words or an unexpected email will have on the recipient, and the lack of verbal nuances and cues (voice tone, sighs, pauses) can easily leads to hassle (or a possible nightmare) The best response to being flamed is no response at all, otherwise the flaming escalates, just like a real fire!

 

Spam - ungodly meat byproduct??
Spam is the "trash" of electronic marketing; message boards or opt-in lists are considered "Permission Marketing" and becoming quite popular. It is definitely going to put you in the Email Etiquette Dance Corner, and your messages could accidently be perceived as spam.

 

One solution is to create a permission-based club or group that gives consumers control over whether to receive your emails or not while you demonstrate your respect for their privacy.

 

For correspondence that is in the gray area between spam and non-spam (such as initial contact), you should include a disclaimer that provides opt-out and acknowledges your desire to be spam-free at the same time. For example, if you're sending an initial contact email to a newsgroup or message board, you could put something like the following in your post or in your signature:
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"If you think this email content is not appropriate for this newsgroup, please send notification to the email address mailto:you@y..."
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Good luck, thanks for reading this far and I hope you find these tips useful.


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A.L Haines is the editor and publisher for several useful online Internet Marketing newsletters. How to get 250,000 FREE classified ads http://swap.at/TheSwapShop.com

 

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What IS Spam?

by John Botscharow

 

Well, that's not any easy question to answer. It all depends on who is doing the defining. Below are several major Internet providers, one's that are very popular. I've also included the definition from the Terms of Service (TOS) of my local ISP, as well as two of the major SPAM watchdogs, the Coalition Against Unsolicited Commercial E-mail (CAUCE) and SpamCops.

 

From AOL's Rules of Conduct: "By posting information in or otherwise using any communications service,chat room, message board, news group, software library, or other interactive service that may be available to you on or through this site, you agree that you will not upload, post, or otherwise distribute or facilitate distribution of any content -- including text, communications, software, images, sounds, data, or other information -- that: constitutes unauthorized or unsolicited advertising, junk or bulk e-mail (also known as "spamming"), chain letters, any other form of unauthorized solicitation, or any form of lottery or gambling; You also agree that you will not harvest or collect information about the users or members of this site or use such information for the purpose of transmitting or facilitating transmission of unsolicited bulk electronic e-mail or communications."

 

From Yahoo Terms of Service: "You many not upload, post, email or otherwise transmit any unsolicited or unauthorized advertising, promotional materials, "junk mail," "spam," "chain letters," "pyramid schemes," or any other form of solicitation, except in those areas (such as shopping rooms) that are designated for such purpose." From Hotmail's Terms of Service: "You agree to abide by all applicable local, state, national and international laws and regulations and are solely responsible for all acts or omissions that occur under your account or password, including the content of your transmissions through the Service. By way of example, and not as a limitation, you agree not to: Use the Service in connection with surveys, contests, pyramid schemes, chain letters, junk email, spamming or any duplicative or unsolicited messages (commercial or otherwise). Advertise or offer to sell or buy any goods or services for any non-personal purpose. Harvest or otherwise collect information about others, including email addresses, without their consent. Create a false identity for the purpose of misleading others as to the identity of the sender or the origin of a message."

 

From my ISP's Terms of Service: "The customer agrees to refrain from inappropriate or multiple postings of the same message ("spamming"). The customer agrees to refrain from sending mass, unsolicited e-mail messages. The customer agrees to post advertisements only in areas that specifically encourage or allow advertising. The customer agrees to respect the conventions of news groups, mailing lists and networks to which the customer is posting, including those more restrictive than, but not limited to the above. Complaints received regarding non-compliance will be treated as grounds for termination or suspension of the customer's account"

 

From CAUCE's Web site: "Junk Email "We all get junk mail at home. It's an accepted fact of life, at least in the U.S. So why is Unsolicited Commercial Email (UCE) -a/k/a "spam" or "junk email" -- a problem? "To understand the problem of UCE, you must first understand what is most often advertised via UCE. There are many places on the Internet where copies of UCE are re posted by recipients and system administrators in order to help notify the Internet community about where UCE is originating. Surveying mailing lists like SPAM-L@EVA.DC.LSOFT.COM and USENET news groups in the news.admin.net-abuse.* hierarchy, you will see that there are very few reputable marketers using UCE to advertise goods and services. To the contrary, the most commonly seen UCEs advertise: "Chain letters Pyramid schemes (including Multilevel Marketing, or MLM) Other "Get Rich Quick" or "Make Money Fast" (MMF) schemes "Offers of phone sex lines and ads for pornographic web sites "Offers of software for collecting e-mail addresses and sending UCE "Offers of bulk e-mailing services for sending UCE "Stock offerings for unknown start-up corporations "Quack health products and remedies "Illegally pirated software ("Warez")"

 

From SpamCops web site: "What do I need to know to get started reporting spam? First of all, you should know the difference between spam and email that is not spam. "Not all bulk/commercial email is spam. Bulk email can be split into two categories: Opt-in and Opt-out. Opt-in is email that you requested (or at least agreed to receive), and this is what legitimate bulk emailers use (microsoft, deja.com, etc.) Opt-out is a system whereby the sender finds your address in some nefarious way(harvesting addresses from web-sites or public discussion forums), then asks you to request removal if you do not want to receive email. Most people find opt-out email to be offensive and classify it as spam.

 

"Legitimate" looking spam "In general, email from reputable companies, such as Microsoft and Amazon are opt-in, and if you receive email purporting to be from a company you would normally consider to be legitimate, you should consider carefully the possibility that you did agree to receive it sometime in the past. If you are sure you did not, then it may be someone attempting to appear to be a representative of the company in question, but who actually does not have the consent of the company. Once in a while, a large, otherwise reputable organization will "accidentally" send out some unsolicited email. The main domain-name registry, Network Solutions, is a notable example of this. It has in the past sent outright spam and has been widely criticized for this action among spam-fighters. In any case, if you are sure that you did not request the email, then you are well within your rights to report it as spam.

 

"Hoaxes and form letters "Often, people receive email warning them of a dire threat due to new viruses or offering amazing rewards for continuing a chain letter. Even innocent seeming emails like petitions can circulate for years. Any email asking you to make and distribute copies of it should be viewed very skeptically.

 

However, this type of email is not normally considered spam. Usually the sender is an acquaintance - not someone you want to report as a spammer. It is much better to simply reply to these "clueless newbies" and explain the situation to them - "this email is a hoax, please don't send me this type of thing" - or whatever applies. Be sure to reply only to the sender of the email, not to the sender and all the other recipients as well."

 

As you can see, the definitions vary greatly. They are also vague and open to interpretation. AOL and MSN/Hotmail have the strictest interpretations of all Internet providers. SpamCops has an extremely restrictive definition - be very careful when dealing with them. Too many ISPs will terminate your service without ANY opportunity for you to explain or defend yourself. Make sure you READ your ISP TOS carefully. If you have any questions or are unsure how they interpret SPAM, talk to the manager of your ISP. Many of them are reasonable and will work with you.

 

(A personal suggestion from experience: most of the major Web-based e-mail accounts are NOT conducive to doing business via e-mail. They will close your account without explanation and trying to contact them to discuss the matter is a waste of time. Stay away from them. There are some that are good for small businesses - if you want some recommendations, contact me at john@3r-marketing.com.)

 

The most important point about all of this is that there is NO consistent definition of what constitutes SPAM. e-Crucible is working on a very detailed definition of what constitutes Spam. We will lay out explicit and clear rules of what type of commercial e-mail should be acceptable. We will work with the major Internet providers as well as smaller ISPs to persuade them ALL to accept one UNIVERSAL definition of SPAM that cannot be misinterpreted by ANYONE!


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John Botscharow is co-publisher and editor of the Web Street Journal. He is also one of the partners in 3 R Marketing. Visit them at http://www.3r-marketing.com and subscribe to one or more of their marketing newsletters.

 

This article is Copyrighted 2000 by 3 R Marketing. It may be reprinted in its entirety only and with the above source box attached. This article provided by the Marketing-Seek Archives at: http://www.Marketing-Seek.com

 

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More Netiquette Resources:

Common Sense Netiquette Rules

ZDNet Help & How-To
The Netiquette Homepage

Dark Mountain's Netiquette Guide

 

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